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Title: So uh, hey. I am a father
Post by: K-man on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:36:16 PM
We went to the doc today and everything looks fine, so I suppose it's time to let the cat out of the bag.

She's 8 weeks along, due date of April 9.  

Scared to death and excited at the same time.
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Post by: Pugnate on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:44:05 PM
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Awesome news. :)
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Post by: MysterD on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:44:29 PM
Congrats and best wishes to you. :)
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Post by: TheOtherBelmont on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:45:05 PM
Congrats dude!
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Post by: shock on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:55:47 PM
Awesome!!

Were you guys expecting a pregnancy?  Hoping for a boy or girl?  Excited? Anxious?
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Post by: Cobra951 on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 02:56:57 PM
Welcome to a real life-changer.  Congratulations, daddy-to-be.
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Post by: K-man on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 03:02:47 PM
Awesome!!

Were you guys expecting a pregnancy?  Hoping for a boy or girl?  Excited? Anxious?

Well, we weren't going to try until later this year.  We just sort of threw caution to the wind, thinking it would be a while before she actually got pregnant.  Yeah, took a week and a half.

Hoping for a boy, but expecting a girl for that very fact.

Excited and anxious.  Definite game changer.

Thanks to everyone for the congrats.
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Post by: Cools! on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 03:40:59 PM
Congrats! :D
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Post by: gpw11 on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 04:40:43 PM
DIBS ON HAVING YOUR FIRST BORN NAMED AFTER ME.




Yessss, got it.
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Post by: Quemaqua on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 04:55:46 PM
Congrats again, dude. For your sake I hope it isn't a girl. I don't know if you're anything like me, but if I ever had one, I would do nothing but follow her around with a shotgun for the rest of my life. Good luck to all three of you.
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Post by: scottws on Thursday, September 01, 2011, 05:28:24 PM
Congratulations, K-Man!!! Keep us in the loop.
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Post by: Xessive on Friday, September 02, 2011, 09:38:15 AM
Congrats, K-man!! ;D
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Post by: K-man on Monday, April 16, 2012, 08:43:54 PM
Baby's a week overdue.  We go into the hospital at 5am tomorrow to be induced.

Shit's about to get real.
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Post by: idolminds on Monday, April 16, 2012, 08:56:53 PM
May she launch the baby out like a scud missile of freedom.
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Post by: Xessive on Monday, April 16, 2012, 09:48:16 PM
Oh man, this is exciting! I cannot imagine the anxiety you're feeling right now! ;D

Sorry if that didn't help your anxiety :P

Congrats dude!! Keep us posted!!
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Post by: gpw11 on Monday, April 16, 2012, 10:54:11 PM
Awesome!  And definitely keep us posted on little gpw/gpwina.

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Post by: sirean_syan on Tuesday, April 17, 2012, 06:38:54 AM
Good luck dude. According to the clock things should be happening now so by the time you see this: hope it all went well.
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Post by: Pugnate on Tuesday, April 17, 2012, 10:42:24 AM
Boy or girl, you will be extremely h appy. They both will make you happy over the years in their own way.
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Post by: idolminds on Tuesday, April 17, 2012, 04:15:45 PM
This Giant Bomb podcast (http://media.giantbomb.com/podcast/giantbombcast-041712.mp3) is perfect timing for a new father. At least the first part of it.
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Post by: K-man on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 06:18:35 AM
What a long day.  She began labor at 6 am yesterday.  Finally delivered at 11:25 lat night.  Got to sleep around 4 and woke up at 7 by the nurse.  SO FREAKING TIRED
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Post by: Cobra951 on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 07:13:02 AM
Welcome to your new lifestyle.  :D

Congratulations, papa!  My best wishes to you and your new . . . er, boy? girl?
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Post by: K-man on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 07:38:18 AM
Girl.  Willa Jane
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Post by: Cobra951 on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 08:14:54 AM
Hello, Willa!  Welcome!  :)
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Post by: Quemaqua on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 09:00:01 AM
Nice. Good luck, man, that sounds like a rough time. Hope Beth is well.
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Post by: K-man on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 10:41:07 AM
She's doing well.  They ended up having to snip a little to give Willa's head some room.  So Beth's a little sore because of that.  She was a trooper.  She has a vagina of steel.  This is all so weird.  Kids is something that always felt like it was decades away.  Now I've got this little one that I'm responsible for.
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Post by: beo on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 10:44:14 AM
rather you than me. :P

enjoy your spawn!
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Post by: Cools! on Wednesday, April 18, 2012, 03:28:28 PM
Congratulations K-man! :)
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Post by: ren on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 01:25:27 PM
I just got my babysitting license in case you need somebody.
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Post by: sirean_syan on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 04:41:09 PM
So uh, hey. Not to steal K-man's thunder but this seems like the most appropriate place.

(http://s94054002.onlinehome.us//My%20Pictures/People/Baby%20Announcement_4x6.jpg)
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Post by: TheOtherBelmont on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 05:09:59 PM
Congrats to you and Aimee!
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Post by: idolminds on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 05:54:25 PM
(http://images.wikia.com/zimwiki/images/7/7f/POB_1.jpg) (http://zim.wikia.com/wiki/Plague_of_Babies)
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Post by: sirean_syan on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 06:06:57 PM
Waves of stupidness abound.
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Post by: Quemaqua on Thursday, April 19, 2012, 11:35:40 PM
The fatherhood is getting thick up in here.
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Post by: K-man on Friday, April 20, 2012, 08:09:30 AM
Congrats!  How did I miss that you were expecting?
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Post by: PyroMenace on Friday, April 20, 2012, 09:25:34 AM
Heh, you didn't miss anything. He never said. That's how Sy rolls, ninjas babies all up in this mother!
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Post by: Cobra951 on Friday, April 20, 2012, 01:23:07 PM
Haha!

Congrats to all the daddies, present, future and stealthy.
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Post by: K-man on Friday, April 20, 2012, 03:43:42 PM
Overwritten.net:  Don't drink the water.
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Post by: K-man on Friday, April 20, 2012, 03:49:26 PM
Obligatory photo now that I'm home

(http://i44.tinypic.com/16kcfbn.jpg)
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Post by: sirean_syan on Friday, April 20, 2012, 04:19:16 PM
See. Cory knows how I am. That's why we love him.

Fancy though. Already in a dress and pink bow. Mabel will be lucky if she has anything more than a silly hat or onesie for the next year.
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Post by: K-man on Friday, April 20, 2012, 04:21:29 PM
The hospital put the bow on the first night. We had her picture taken at the hospital in that dress.  It's the dress her mother came home in over 29 years ago.
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Post by: Pugnate on Friday, April 20, 2012, 05:46:57 PM
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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Post by: K-man on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 06:54:43 AM
Sy, you have an unbelievable amount of self-control.  The minute the two lines showed up on the pregnancy test I wanted to shout from the rooftops.
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Post by: sirean_syan on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 07:11:23 AM
I just really like surprising people with stuff... maybe a little too much. For example, my parents didn't know I was going to graduate from college until a few nights before the event.

I was good enough to "restrain" myself here and let them know when we found out.
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Post by: Cobra951 on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 08:17:29 AM
After 4 miscarriages between daughters, I learned not to shout or congratulate before successful delivery.  Restraint is the prudent approach, if you can manage it.
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Post by: K-man on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 09:14:47 AM
Yeah we really lucked out.  Aside from some high BP on Beth's part, pregnancy was without complication. And (so far at least) we've got a healthy baby girl.

My ex girlfriend was pregnant too, just a few weeks behind Beth, and her baby died about 3 weeks ago.  I can't imagine having to go through the pain of delivering a stillborn fetus.  Knowing all that work and you don't have anything in the end.  Especially after getting over the first few "dangerous" months, decorating the nursery, baby showers, etc etc.  I just hurt for her and her husband.  Especially now that I know how it feels to be a parent.

So in short:  restraint is definitely the better option. 
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Post by: sirean_syan on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 02:04:55 PM
So, the worst thing about adjusting to being a parent?

Dealing with the fucking in laws. I mean, you come to "help" which results me in more or less having to entertain you for the next two weeks while I'm trying to keep Aimee and baby comfortable. All the while you get to stare at and hold my baby yet you only willingly giving it back to us when she starts to cry. I effectively loose half my apartment while they're around because they fucking just sit there. They have no will to get up and do shit on their own or actually help unless told to do something. No wonder they're great government employees. Thankfully they're staying in a hotel but fuck me. Anything I've have to adjust to with baby has paled in comparison to dealing with them.

Tonight. They're fucking suggestion to helping? KFC. Really, that's your suggestion? We told you your last dinner passed through Aimee and made baby gassy all last night and hence crying to about 4am. You think KFC is the next best step? I love bad food as much as the next guy, but now is not that time.
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Post by: Pugnate on Saturday, April 21, 2012, 05:06:34 PM
I've just emailed this thread to your in-laws.