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Offline shock

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I'm so fucking mad
« on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 01:55:31 AM »
I have an email ready to send to my boss declaring my resignation.  It's wonderfully worded, and few things would give me more satisfaction than sending it.

I work at my university's housing office.  I was recently hired as a supervisor for the summer.  Because we have prime real estate in a large city, we rent out our dorms to college students from around the country during the summer.  We began training at the beginning of January.  I have worked for this institution for two years previously, as a "grunt", but this is my first time as a supervisor.

Background aside, I live in a brand new building on campus.  To keep this short: the elevators blow in this building.  They break in a bi-weekly basis.  There are three.  I live on the 10th floor.  It's a pain in my fucking ass when only one elevator is working, which has been the norm for the past few weeks.  It tends to hover between zero and one working elevator.  Brand new building.  It's also the most expensive on campus.  There has been no communication with us addressing the elevator problems, which have continued for MONTHS.

Because our institution is run like an enormous bureaucracy, the folks in charge of fixing the elevators are a different office than mine.  Given that this has seriously been going on for about 6 months, I researched the administrators of the university organization that maintains the elevators.  I got all of their email addresses from the directory and sent them a fairly long email, detailing my grievances.  The email was professionally worded.  It clearly stated the issue, the absurd number of occurrences, and my desire for a long term solution.  I did not devolve to emotional pleas nor to similar notions.  Yet it was strongly worded, concluding with the assertion "What do you intend to do to fix this situation?"

3-4 days pass after I send this email.  Nothing happens.  I figured I'm just going to get shrugged off.  The elevators aren't even fixed.  We have a staff meeting on Friday (yesterday?).  I get pulled out of it for a meeting in my boss' office along with the director of my office.  Eek.  They talk about my email and how inappropriate it was.  Among the complaints were my ruining of the relationship with the office that manages the elevators.  Yet I sent the email from a PERSONAL CAPACITY.  I made no mention of our office(no signature, no mention).  It is not even known outside our office that the student who sent it was an employee of the housing office.  I was simply an annoyed student.  I disagreed vehemently with the nature of this private meeting with administrators, but bit my tongue.

Now, instead of ending there, my bosses decide to make an example of me.  The staff meeting agenda was cast aside so that we can discuss just how inappropriate my email was.  The entirety of it is read aloud to the entire staff with the vague notion that "others can learn from this mistake."  Some kiss ass to the administrators, while others are entirely confused as to what constituted the supposed unprofessionalism.  I sat there and took that too.

Now I'm fucking fed up.  So now I have an email, ready to quit.  The position would let me live for free for the summer (I'm graduating in May) and earn a good paycheck, but I don't know if I can tolerate this administration.  I'm seriously thinking I'd rather be searching for a job in this shitty market for a year than suck it up and have no backbone.  I guess I'll think on it for the weekend.
Suck it, Pugnate.

Offline PyroMenace

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #1 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 02:47:46 AM »
Yea that does indeed suck pretty hard. But that sounds pretty common on how a management can be run. If you have a shitty boss, which there's a fuck ton out there, and you go over them about an issue, they can and probably will make your life miserable. Have you tried meeting any of those people who work in that office in person? Meeting face to face is more personal and it's usually less abrasive. Is there not a maintenance guy that works around your building at all?

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #2 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 08:31:18 AM »
If you don't really care if the job goes away, why not take the issue over your boss's head?  Or take it to the media?  Sounds like a human-interest story, a 10-story building with constantly defective elevators.  Any disabled people live there, even mild disability?  Pay back humiliation with humiliation.  They seem to deserve it anyway, so all they can do is hate you privately, and not employ you.  (You could make getting fired a public issue too, if it follows your whistle blowing.)

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #3 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 08:41:12 AM »
I would say you wait and think this through. Yes it was completely wrong and assholish of them to behave that way but I say you wait it out, get the pay checks and when it is time to go, you leave with a bang.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #4 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 09:12:52 AM »
A pretty classic dilemma. Its like all the people who are against wars working for defense contractors. On one hand you want a paycheck on the other hand you have what you think is right.

It would be interesting if you sent an email to everyone there and say 'now that I dont work for you anymore and am just a resident of the building, fix the fucking elevators.' But, you probably have a little more class than me.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #5 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 09:19:41 AM »
you already took the abuse, might as well continue to take the money.

if you wanted to call bullshit, should of done it when they were singling you out - now there's no point, and the only person to suffer from the resignation is you.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #6 on: Saturday, February 20, 2010, 09:28:44 AM »
Pee in the elevators.*






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Offline shock

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #7 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 12:40:00 PM »
Well, our student-run newspaper picked up on the issue and wrote about it.

http://media.www.gwhatchet.com/media/storage/paper332/news/2010/02/22/News/University.Apologizes.For.Faulty.South.Hall.Elevators-3876532.shtml

It's currently the most popular article on the website.  The administration HATES when they get mentioned in this newspaper.  Hate hate hate.  I know there are going to have TONS of meetings over this.  And I'm the one that prompted it all.

So that's a big "fuck you" to everyone that tried to fuck me over.  So I'm going to keep collecting paychecks and giving out office supplies to homeless people.
Suck it, Pugnate.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #8 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 01:09:24 PM »
Nice. This seems to be the best way to go.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #9 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 02:55:01 PM »
nice. i'd be feeling pretty satisfied if i were you!

Offline WindAndConfusion

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #10 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 04:00:02 PM »
DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB. I highly suggest you LET THEM treat you like shit or fire you.

What they're doing is illegal. It is ILLEGAL (civil and criminal, in parts of the US) for a landlord to retaliate against a tenant for making a maintenance complaint.

TALK TO A LAWYER. WRITE STUFF DOWN. RECORD WHEN YOU MEET PEOPLE AND WHAT GETS SAID. SAVE YOUR EMAILS, TALK TO OTHER STAFFERS. TALK TO A LAWYER.

TALK TO A LAWYER.
« Last Edit: Monday, February 22, 2010, 05:24:22 PM by WindAndConfusion »

Offline WindAndConfusion

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #11 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 04:09:06 PM »
Which state are you in? This is the landlord-tenant rights' guide for California, which discusses retaliatory actions in-depth starting on page 73.

Also, TALK TO A LAWYER. You have the world's most actionable complaint sitting in front of you, pointed at someone who totally deserves it.
« Last Edit: Monday, February 22, 2010, 04:51:55 PM by WindAndConfusion »

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #12 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 07:41:56 PM »
I like Wind's idea.  LITIGATE MOTHERFUCKER.

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« Reply #13 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 08:52:10 PM »
He doesn't have to litigate, but he should at least contact a legal advocacy group and get them to send an appropriate letter to his bosses' boss.

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Re: I'm so fucking mad
« Reply #14 on: Monday, February 22, 2010, 09:19:33 PM »
Oh.  Well, can he at least burn that motherfucker down?