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Ok: I have a seasonal job as a supervisor with my university right now. Originally, it was set to run until Sept 1st. I graduated in May and just started looking for employment. I got a good chance at a law firm for a paralegal position and I nailed the interview/etc and I got a job offer. During the interview, I talked a lot about my current job. I was also directly asked about a start date and I basically said that "I can't nail anything down right now, but if an offer were extended, I'm sure I'd be able to work with your firm and my current employer to work out something amicable." We continued our interview as usual.
I got the offer phone call from her today. It was quick and to the point: they had it down to me and one other candidate, and they went with me. They were hoping I could give them a decision by tomorrow morning, though, because the other candidate has an offer at another organization that expires then. They want to give him the bad news before that so he can take that position. Nothing was mentioned about a start date.
She followed up with the offer letter. It does not have a start date either. Instead, it reads "Your official hire date will be determined upon your acceptance of this offer."
To me, this means there will be some leeway in deciding when I start. I've spoken with my current employer a lot about the situation. My boss wants me to do my absolute best to make it until August 7th. My current job gives me free room and board in DC (read: expensive), so that further complicates the situation. He has said he won't evict me or charge me, but it still makes it tricky. I've also worked there for three years and a lot of my friends work there, so I want to not fuck them over more than I have to.
Question: Do I...
1) Accept the offer and say that "I'll be following up with my employer immediately regarding a start date." I would then draft a message that explains the nuances and asks for the start of August 7th, after having it proofed by my current boss. I'd send it out tomorrow. They know that 1) I have a job, 2) the minimum for a leaving a job is two weeks. We could hereby begin the negotiations, AFTER I have accepted the offer letter. If they don't agree with that date, I don't really care THAT much and can move it up. I figure they will be significantly less likely to drop at this point.
2) Have a conversation with the woman BEFORE accepting the offer about a start date. My fear in this scenario is losing the offer over trying to not dick over my old job. After all, she already has someone else who is well-qualified for the position in her pocket right now (and she won't in two days). This is what my employer wants me to do.
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