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Offline Raisa

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« on: Friday, January 14, 2011, 07:37:48 PM »
how's everyone? busy for me.. having a kid is like throwing your life in a blender and making a sundae and ending up with grilled cheese.
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« Reply #1 on: Friday, January 14, 2011, 08:14:07 PM »
I'm good. Even better since I'm about to invent the grilled cheese sundae.

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« Reply #2 on: Friday, January 14, 2011, 08:20:05 PM »
Kids are great though! They're fun. at least half the time. Until they get to be like 14, then they suck all the way up until the 20's.

I'm good. Just busy with school and work. The gf is out of town until Sunday, and I am really very bored and have no idea what to do this weekend. I never really realize how much I rely on her for entertainment and company when she is around, and then when she is gone, it kind of sucks. It's also lame to realize that I've gotten to a point in my life where I rely on another person that much.

So, I'm watching movie after movie on netflix while sitting here doing homework.

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« Reply #3 on: Saturday, January 15, 2011, 12:28:35 AM »
I hate absolutely everything about children pretty much from the second they're born until they hit 25.  I don't think I'm cut out for parenting.  The irony is that kids seem to love me and I'm usually pretty good with them.  I'll never understand why that is.

My life is weird.  Quit my job, moving to Texas, attempting to work as a writer.

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« Reply #4 on: Saturday, January 15, 2011, 08:29:53 AM »
Love it or hate it, having a kid changes your life dramatically.

I'm still here, which I guess is positive overall.  One day follows another.

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« Reply #5 on: Saturday, January 15, 2011, 12:15:10 PM »
I am having major problems with my business. To cut a long story short, due to rising prices, stupidity from the leather tannery (and complete lack of communication), and my work having stopped for the last 4 months, I have a major cash flow problem. Things will be tight for the next while, and shit can really hit the fan for me. Basically I owe the tannery people 25+ grand and my money still hasn't come to me, which I need to give to them. The tension is excessive.

I've been considering not visiting this place till things sort out. I don't want there to be fall out from my mood. Can't even play a game.

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« Reply #6 on: Saturday, January 15, 2011, 12:53:21 PM »
I am having major problems with my business. To cut a long story short, due to rising prices, stupidity from the leather tannery (and complete lack of communication), and my work having stopped for the last 4 months, I have a major cash flow problem. Things will be tight for the next while, and shit can really hit the fan for me. Basically I owe the tannery people 25+ grand and my money still hasn't come to me, which I need to give to them. The tension is excessive.

I've been considering not visiting this place till things sort out. I don't want there to be fall out from my mood. Can't even play a game.

Sorry to hear that man.  Just make sure you find something you can do to get away from it all for a while.

Things are hot and cold for me.  Work blows and I need to get another job, but I kind of wanted to get that one last summer working outside in.  My boss is a two faced bitch and getting really shady with our money, which is a bad sign for his cashflow and the potential of long term employment.  The thing is that he isn't open about it at all, and he tells you what he thinks you want to hear and just strings you along.  To tell the truth, I may not have a job come Monday.  I rolled the dice a bit yesterday in order to apply some pressure and get some money owed to me.  The gambit worked, but I have a feeling there will be long-term negative effects stemming from it. 

See, I'm reasonable about shit and understand the guy's position with cashflow, but I have expenses that need to be taken care of ASAP or they're going to start snowballing.  I was hit with an excessive speeding ticket last Saturday, caught on a highway exit going 103km when the limit was 50km.  Now, that might sound a bit excessive, but it was a highway exit and everyone I've talked to has been shocked that they'd actually set up radar there because it's the norm. Anyways, guy was a prick about it, didn't cut me any breaks and hit me with the full force of an excessive speeding ticket here...which includes a seven fucking day impoundment of your vehicle.  Ticket+tow fee+a weeks worth of impoundment fees = fuck me.

And to top that off, I recently accrued a parking ticket for parking too close to an intersection.  You know how you'd think it was 5 feet?  Well, apparently, in the city of Vancouver, it's six fucking meters.  That's huge.  This wouldn't be an issue except that they're cracking down on people not paying their tickets and I had a summons for yesterday to appear and either fight or pay the ticket or else a bench warrant would be issued.  So, I obviously needed to pay that in order to get my car out of impound.  Not having the money was going to fuck me, because if I couldn't get it out on Sunday, I'd lose the government rate for impoundment and the rate would more than double until I actually got in there to get it...after all the payments cleared.

It was like the perfect storm of me getting financially fucked.  Luckily, I got the money owed to me, but unfortunately, out of that $3,000 I have nothing after various shit is payed off.  Oh, and a roommate left so we're stuck with that for however long.

On the upside, I'm done with classes, almost eligible to receive both of my degrees at once and in a pretty good position to launch a new career.  Also, I've been seeing two pretty awesome chicks; one I could actually manage to spend a fair amount of time with without losing my mind.  That's all you can really ask for, right?

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« Reply #7 on: Sunday, January 16, 2011, 12:26:03 AM »
Nausea, headache, diarrhea, vomiting, stomach cramps for the passed 2 days. I'm recovering now though, at work and totally drained of energy. The only thing I had in the last 2 days was 2 bagels and 2 bananas, the first pair of which didn't digest all the way.

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« Reply #8 on: Sunday, January 16, 2011, 12:44:38 AM »
Congratulations on the kid Raisa.

However, reading the rest of this thread is fucking depressing.

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« Reply #9 on: Sunday, January 16, 2011, 01:35:01 AM »
Oh yeah, I forgot to congratulate you on your child!  My sister just had a baby...I've gone from finding them slightly annoying to absolutely adorable (when you don't have to feed or change them).  Everything going well with family life?


Oh, and had another financial hit today.  Fuuuuck me.  I'm one more incident away from getting a rifle and finding a clock tower.

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« Reply #10 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 03:44:38 AM »
Congratulations on your baby, Raisa :) I am really happy for you

Things are treading water for me. I have a very happy and fulfilling relationship, but I'm living in poverty like conditions relative to the Canadian average, have an ever-increasing personal debt load, and really have no idea how to navigate my way out of it. All I know is that I'm more happy than sad most days, and that's a big win from where I was. Sometimes I wonder if I have undiagnosed mental illness (depression/severe anxiety) but my fear of pharmaceuticals and what they do to your personality is keeping me from really seeking out help. I've been doing everything I can to avoid sleeping pills and drugs like Seroquel and Effexor. Fuck those drugs.
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« Reply #11 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 06:35:31 AM »
Babies!

My sister had twins a few months ago.  I still can't believe how small they are when they are newborn.  They don't seem human.

Anyway, life is ok.  I'm probably ditching my law school plans and am desperately looking to get out of my job right now.  It pays well (relatively) but I hate it.  I need to figure out what career I want to pursue, then get a job in that industry and start getting some experience.  And then maybe grad school.  I have no fucking idea.
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« Reply #12 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 11:14:36 AM »
Raisa congrats on your child!!!!

PICS?!

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« Reply #13 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 01:22:47 PM »
We all ask for pics from Raisa and what has it brought us?

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« Reply #14 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 07:06:57 PM »
having a kid is like throwing your life in a blender and making a sundae and ending up with grilled cheese.

I like grilled cheese better than sundaes.

But I don't like kids, basically like Que. People tell me I'm good with them, and they seem to like me. But they make me uncomfortable and annoy me.

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« Reply #15 on: Thursday, February 24, 2011, 07:26:24 PM »
Children are like annoying little people that you'll be arrested for ignoring.

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« Reply #16 on: Friday, February 25, 2011, 08:27:18 PM »
I like kids, as long as they are well mannered etc. :P

There is little worse than a spoiled brat.

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« Reply #17 on: Sunday, February 27, 2011, 08:39:02 AM »
Grats on the bebe.  From what I understand, you can say goodbye to sleep for a few years.  And weren't there pics of Raisa flying around at one point?  Middle aged balding black dude if I remember correctly.

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« Reply #18 on: Sunday, February 27, 2011, 09:21:42 AM »
no that was savarian_syan

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« Reply #19 on: Sunday, February 27, 2011, 09:26:31 AM »
Oh yeahhhhh.

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« Reply #20 on: Sunday, February 27, 2011, 09:38:11 AM »
hahahahahah