Author Topic: I'm curious, due to some conversations tonight. Who of you have been in love? (Read 6166 times)

Quemaqua · « **on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:14:36 PM »

Pretty simple question. I'm really just curious. I've known a lot of people who have never been, and that baffles me from my own experience in life. But we're all different people. So just be honest. Have you ever or have you never?

angrykeebler · « **Reply #1 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:18:55 PM »

Should have an "I don't know" option cause that's what I'd choose

Quemaqua · « **Reply #2 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:24:30 PM »

If you don't know, the answer is no. Plain and simple.

iPPi · « **Reply #3 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:28:15 PM »

Unfortunately, I am too focused on my career and furthering my education that I have not invested myself into a serious relationship. So... no.

idolminds · « **Reply #4 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:37:10 PM »

No. I am a sad and lonely individual. My life is in despa.....hey look! A chimpanzee riding on a Segway!

Cools! · « **Reply #5 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 09:42:02 PM »

I don't think I've ever been "in love" as an adult. Like iPPi, I've always been preoccupied with something else and never invested into seeking long term relationships. Sure I've had my share of infatuations, but otherwise I find it hard to relate to what others describe as being in love (movies, books, friends, etc.).

ren · « **Reply #6 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 10:17:41 PM »

I've been in love once. I was with the girl for basically 4 years. It ended around two years ago and I was pretty bitter and cynical about women for a while.

Cobra951 · « **Reply #7 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 10:57:58 PM »

Yes, more than once.

Quemaqua · « **Reply #8 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 11:19:23 PM »

I suppose the obvious question for those who have would be "How many times?" I seem to be on 3.

Cobra951 · « **Reply #9 on:** Monday, June 21, 2010, 11:30:51 PM »

I'm going to say 4. That only includes the ladies who have felt the same in return. It does not include my current relationship, because I'm not really sure.

Quemaqua · « **Reply #10 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 12:17:37 AM »

Shit, if you're only including reciprocation you're missing the best reasons to get drunk.

beo · « **Reply #11 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 02:48:41 AM »

yep. twice. magical at first, but utterly devastating when it goes wrong.

sirean_syan · « **Reply #12 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 10:14:44 AM »

Pretty straightforward yes from me, the level of which has only grown over the past years.

ren · « **Reply #13 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 10:35:10 AM »

The four of you who haven't fallen in love should all fall in love with each other. It just makes sense that way.

Cobra951 · « **Reply #14 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 10:52:14 AM »

Quote from: Quemaqua on Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 12:17:37 AM

Shit, if you're only including reciprocation you're missing the best reasons to get drunk.

Maybe we need some definition then? I've had a good many more girlfriends and encounters than that. I've also been smitten once or twice while I was married, but I was determined not to cheat. (I never did.) I once had to play possum during the advances of a sister-in-law. (That was weird; I wanted it to go away; I acted like it never happened, and it went away, thank God. It was difficult because I really liked her.) But I narrowed my answer to what I considered real love between two people.

PyroMenace · « **Reply #15 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 07:10:53 PM »

I have loved and lost. It is said thats better than to never have loved at all, so I guess I'm better off.

Quemaqua · « **Reply #16 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 07:13:44 PM »

Me personally, I'm thinking that's a load of horseshit. But maybe that's just me.

K-man · « **Reply #17 on:** Tuesday, June 22, 2010, 07:33:23 PM »

loving and losing is good experience.

MysterD · « **Reply #18 on:** Friday, June 25, 2010, 06:53:20 PM »

Yup, I sure have have been in love...

PyroMenace · « **Reply #19 on:** Friday, June 25, 2010, 11:03:38 PM »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loWXMtjUZWM&feature=youtube_gdata

Cobra951 · « **Reply #20 on:** Saturday, June 26, 2010, 12:09:37 AM »

Love that song.

Quemaqua · « **Reply #21 on:** Saturday, June 26, 2010, 12:12:07 AM »

Best love song ever:

gpw11 · « **Reply #22 on:** Saturday, June 26, 2010, 12:12:41 AM »

I couldn't tell you. Although, I will say that I have loved a lot of girls in some capacity for very very short periods of time. Have I ever been in love? No idea, but I've certainly said it.

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